Jay Foster

in your opinion what is the perfect personality? why are these qualities important to you?
do you posses any of these qualities? do your friends or family? which?

Jay Foster is the most caring, supportive, generous, respectful guy I have ever met. He opens every car door, resturaunt door, and house door for me. He is the perfect gentleman, most guys these days aren't. He speaks his mind and isn't afraid to share his opinion, but at the same time he is still respectful of everyone else's. We have been friends for three years and just recently started dating. Going into it, I knew that he was shortly going to be leaving for boot camp, and that day is today. He flies out some at some point and this afternoon will be the last time I get to talk to him for a while. He is joining the air force and will be working on the planes, figuring out what is wrong and how to fix it. Sunday was when I had to tell him bye in person and it was so hard even though the rest of the day had been amazing and we had been able to hang out the whole day. This afternoon I am going to have to tell him bye...again, just not in person. He will be at basic for 8 1/2 weeks. I going to his graduation mid-May and his grandparents and I will get to see him for 48 hours before he leaves for A-school for 4 months. I just found out last night that his training was 4 months instead of 6 which is AH-MAZING! I wrote about him in my Alchemist essay saying how it was hard for me to say goodbye and how I had been stressing about it. I tried so hard not to focus on him leaving and focus on the fun that we could have. It would have ruined the past few days we had together if we had been down about the situation. Instead, we had to make each other laugh and enjoy the time.
It was so easy to start a relationship with someone who you have been friends with for so long. I think it's important to have that friendship built up so you know if they are someone you are interested in dating. A lot of times, people start dating someone they barely know, which is probably why teenage relationships are wrongly centered and don't last very long. Personalities play a major role when you are picking someone you are going to date, or they should. Physical appearance isn't going to get you anywhere. You have to have similar interests, morals, and values. My mom has three rules that any boy that we bring home had to meet. Rule #1. They have to have good morals and values
Rule #2. They have to have respect
Rule #3. Last but not least, they have to treat us like the princess we are ;)
Jay definately meets all three of those rules. Even though people might think its a bad or crazy idea, I do what makes me happy and I am very happy with him.